Tick tock.

[Rorschach]

"Busy"?

[Dreamer]

I'll try both in casual conversation later. See which get's the best reception.

[FirebirdNC]

I hear polyamory being used in situations like that. Just between you me and the internet I dated a couple for a while it was interesting.

[Rorschach]

...and once again, there is nothing but the Atlantic between me and my dreams.

[Deacon]

Man I can't decide if a polyamory arrangement (which may be too broad a term, in this case meaning a 3-person arrangement) sounds legitimately ideal or just that much more of a pain in the ass. I imagine it's probably down to the individuals involved. Even if the other parties were a rare gem of emotionally stable and mature individuals, if they were a male-female couple, would it even be possible not to be jealous? Other than friendship, I guess, there's nothing in particular I would want from the dude. Then again I've never been in a devil's threesome (ok any threesome), so maybe it's awesome and I don't know it. They sure don't seem to mind some fairly intimate engagements in the porn world.

So little of the fleeting thoughts we have are "appropriate" to share with a normalized group of people, but I've found myself in a couple situations in the past where I thought that if it were even an option (it wasn't, to my knowledge) it would be worth a shot to be involved with a couple. Can you imagine how awkward it would be for a single person to approach an existing couple with that kind of thought? Talk about a roll of the dice weighted toward a 1 rather than a 20.

There is a particular woman, identified as lesbian, who after I got ahold of her decided she identified as bi instead, and that she "had simply been only dating women before." But I'm not sure that dealing with two women (especially if the other is truly strictly a lesbian, not given to even a glancing view of the male form) would be a whole lot better. Seems like the kind of thing where it would have to be a one partner who's at least mostly cool with a level of openness where the other has the ability to seek gratification with another. Not sure how well that would really work, either.

Ah, humans are so fascinating sometimes. Mostly disappointing, but still fascinating.

PS The slippery slope folk would choke on their own tongue if they saw it, but I'm wondering whether we'll eventually see equal marriage rights for polygamy like we finally have for homosexual couples. Oddly, it seems most of the resistance is strictly religious in nature, based on hold-over Christian dogma, but there is absolutely no prohibition on polygamy in the Bible and in fact an extensive record of perfectly acceptable polygamy throughout the Old Testament (and not a whole lot on marriage in the New).

[NorthernComfort]

Threesomes are great but steer clear of the poly scene. Find a good woman, be normal. If your good woman lets another good woman in the bed sometimes, well....

put a ring on it.

[Dreamer]

And if she doesn't? NC?? IF SHE DOSN'T?!

DO I NEED TO CANCEL!??

Please reply. Time is of the essence!





(for the benefit of people who've never read me. I'm kidding. I'm marrying the girl on 04/09. 100%,. So calm down.)

[Rorschach]

The only reason I don't push for a threesome is that I know after about forty-five seconds, I'd be shamefully making tea.

[FirebirdNC]

...and once again, there is nothing but the Atlantic between me and my dreams.

I know what you mean haha.